I would have like to been asked it I am a "talker." Because mostly I'm not. When I need a massage it's usually because I'm desperate for it. I need peace and quiet and no talking. Not everyone is that way, so I get it that I am the weirdo. She's not. Also, it was of ZERO fault of Solace, but I was in the room that was on the outside wall on probably the coldest day of the year. . . it was chilly and initially her hands were cold, but honestly, it most likely could not have been helped. Lastly, I was never asked what level of pressure I was most comfortable with. I like more of a "strong" touch, Ruth has a gentle touch which is most likely the best strategy on first visit. She did everything right and was very kind and approachable. Good stuff. I like a little harsher muscle touch. She will be perfect for my husband. We're coming back on Feb. 15 - with my hub - I would like him to have Ruth, she'll be perfect for him. I will try Kimmie. Thank you very, very much for giving me appointment at last minute. I will be a return customer. Thank you again. Overall, it was a positive experience.