Hi Lori- Asking about massage pressure and working on the neck is a standard massage practice which you both received since it is a common area of stress and discomfort for many people. You said the pressure was good and unfortunately the condition of your boyfriend’s ankles, feet and toes made them areas full of contraindications for massage. You both were happy and relaxed when you left, and hope you feel better now knowing why he did not have his feet worked on. We wish you both the best.